Jodoh di Tangan Teman

Salut..
It was friday and I did my activity like usual. Suddenly my friend asked me to look for "Jodoh" for him and he wanted me to introduce him self to my girl friends. Well, I didn't understand his reason actually and probably I am the hundred persons that he asked, he might have tried to persuade everyone that he ever known to look for it. Because I know him well, he is my classmate in campuss, and I know his behavior. Imagine, for 4 years I become his friend.
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I told him if he wants to look for wife-to-be the first thing he has to do is correct his self. Yap, I am not perfect neither but at least I wrote something when he text me and asked me.
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Most of us perhaps won't change anything on us. I told my friend -just call him Mawar- if he wants to marry, the girls, true future wife, never look for his wealth or his handsome face. Unfortunatelly, he doesn't handsome, at all. And I told him that we should change our bad behavior so the girl could stay with us everlasting. The word "change" really opposite with "be your self" wich made us dilemma. But, finally, I trully realize that to be your self does not mean you keep stay with your bad attitude and keep saying that everybody is hypocrite. Be your self is the complicated word and sometimes that word will make us hypocrite. In one hand we listen to the quotes that will bring powerful to our journey of life, in the other hand when the quotes doesn't work at all then we will keep writing on our instagram account "just be your self".
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Back to the story, as I told Mawar, he should change his bad attitude and his behave. When you think to say "jancuk" is not bad enough and your friends really love it but you have to know that your future wife (or husband) doesn't love it. You just make them sick of your word. Hey, they are looking for the best candidate for their future, for our better life, dunia akhirat. So just stop your bad attitude and do not pretending with your "be your self" word. To become a good attitude person doesn't mean you deny your self and you are a-two-face person. Try to change it. If you wanna say that your future darling shouldn't deny your self and accept all of your whole package of your life, then, perhaps you will not find it, your future wife/husband. Or maybe you will find it with all along your live, but it is really hard to find out. "But I'm not perfect, I have so many mistakes in my life", yap, everybody admit it. But you can make them sure that you are still learning become a good personality and in the way when they find out your mistakes, do not hesitate to warn you.
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In the end, future darling -wife or husband- will come to you if you have good personality and this is only about time. Well, I really hope my friend, Mawar, he will get his future wife. I do believe someone used to ask you to look for future darling but what to be done...
Good luck for your future darling!
Merci

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